For a week this month, our family was divided on opposite sides of the world. Shimmy and Sophie went to Israel for a week to celebrate our nephew's bar mitzvah. Lilah, Judah, and I stayed home. While Shimmy and Sophie were taking in views like these:
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View of Jerusalem from the porch |
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The desert, on the way to the Dead Sea |
We were going about our regular activities:
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Lilah, joining my workout session
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Our family had never been divided this way before. It was a little odd. We missed each other. We missed out on some of each other's milestones:
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Sophie lost her first tooth |
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Jude turned 10 months |
But, it was also nice in some ways. Lilah began to see Jude as a playmate, which she had not really done before. They interacted with each other and played nicely. It was a great bonding experience for them. My relationship with Lilah benefitted as well. She was suddenly my oldest, so she became my helper, confidant, and buddy. We really enjoyed each other's company. Without the noise (both enthusiastic and argumentative) of the two girls, the house was a lot quieter. It was peaceful and pleasant. We had fun playing at home, and also went out on some fun outings. We missed our other two-fifths a lot over Shabbat. I had not spent shabbat apart from Shimmy in nearly ten years. It was reported to me that Sophie had a hard time with the separation as well. Early Tuesday morning we were all reunited and happy for our family to be in one place again! We spent the day together catching up.
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Reunited and enjoying a picnic in the playroom
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